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Last week I wrote about the idea of a “crystallization of discontent” where the realization that lots of annoying things are all linked together prompts you to take action. The opposite can also happen. You can experience a “crystallization of contentment.”
In a crystallization of contentment you gain an unexpected insight that a bunch of little positive things in your life are not merely disconnected events but the tapestry of a good life.
I’ve come to believe that the “good life” doesn’t look as flashy as our culture may portray it. Long-time married couples consistently tell me that a good marriage consists less of grand romantic gestures and more of small, daily kindnesses. Psychology articles I read say that when it comes to money, happiness reaches its maximum not with a fortune but with enough to provide necessities and a little more.
At a clergy retreat last week I got unexpectedly handed a microphone and asked to tell the group, “What’s the best thing about serving at First United Methodist Church Richardson?” The first thing that came to my mind and out of my mouth was “the people.” And it’s so true. We have an awesome location, facilities and more, but the best thing is you, who consistently bring little (and sometimes big) blessings into my life. “Little” calls, text messages, meals, prayers, and various ways of lending a hand bless me with a life that’s not particularly grand or flashy but simply and joyfully good.
1 Thessalonians 5:16-22 says, “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. Do not quench the Spirit. Do not despise the words of prophets, but test everything; hold fast to what is good; abstain from every form of evil.” Constant prayer connects us with God, who will help us hold fast to what is good and let go of the rest, find something for which to give thanks in every circumstance, and end up rejoicing. That scripture provides a guide to experiencing a crystallization of contentment.
Have a great weekend!
Rich
Rich Rindfuss
Access Pastor
First United Methodist Church Richardson